How to get into pegging
It’s apparently one of the rising sexual trends predicted in 2020 and it’s undoubtedly an experience that has been receiving a lot of attention in film and TV (think Deadpool) and in sexual advice columns for men across the web. Yep, pegging is definitely set to be the go-to sex trend for 2020!
So, if you’ve been reading about it and decided that you want to give it a go and experiment for the first time, what are the things to keep in mind that will allow you to ease yourself (it’s important) into it?
Lube Yes, as always, lube will smooth everything out and is an imperative.
Anal play first Maybe this is an obvious place to start, but before you go full-metal-jacket you have to feel your way there – literally. Start engaging in some gentle ass play, getting your partner to stick their finger into your ass first just slightly and see how it feels. As you become braver figure out how deep and how hard you like it and what exactly works for you and maybe eventually work towards prostate massaging, your partner pushing deep inside you and putting pressure on the harder rounded protrusion that is your prostate.
Pick the right strap-on You’ve figured you’re ready to try pegging, but you’re not sure you’ll like it so you don’t want to spend too much on the strap-on – wrong! Having a good strap-on can be a make-or-break when it comes to pegging. It can keep being too loose and hard to maneuver, it can be unresponsive to your partners thrusting because it’s poorly-made. A good-quality strap-on could literally change the game entirely. Here’s a few we’re particularly enjoying at the moment:
Colour is king A lot of men enjoy anal stimulation but there is still some sensitivity around the idea of being penetrated by a penis. Straight men have been shown to prefer a dildo that does not appear realistic or life-like. So don’t pick flesh coloured dildos but stay with the colourful ones that look least like a penis if that’s a concern.
Not all about doggy style Another somewhat ridiculous worry can often be that being penetrated by your partner is emasculating – this might be because the first image that comes to mind is that of a man being penetrated doggy style by a woman a position suggestive of vulnerability. But as always there are a variety of positions that might put your mind at rest but also seriously get you to next level orgasm. Try ‘the cowboy’ for instance – you lie on your stomach while she squats over you and penetrates you, almost as though she’s on top but you’re turned around.
