5 ways to get into the delights of erotic massage
Erotic massage is really and truly one of the ultimate forms of intimate bonding with your partner. It’s foreplay slowed way down, an exploration of another’s body with no endgame or demonstrable ‘climax’ at the end. Most of all, it’s selfless and about the other person’s pleasure.
It can be a sensational way to sensualise and deepen your desire for each other, making it an incredibly hot way to initiate sex or a wonderful way to prolong it afterwards.
Here’s a few tips on how to massage someone for the best erotic play possible
1.Fingertips, nails, and stroking
Get your partner to lie on their stomach with their arms by their side and palms up. Rather than rolling up your sleeves and going at someone’s back like they’re a piece of dough, start off by running your fingers up and down their back, over their shoulders, and down their arms. Use or nails lightly too to add a little occasional surprise#
2. Neck and head massage
Often we tend to focus on the back and shoulders, but actually a places that holds a lot of tension but is also very sensitive given its proximity to the throat and glands, is our neck. Stroke the neck and knead it gently, allowing your fingers to go into the person hair and give them the gentlest of scalp massages. Run your your fingers through their hair (god who doesn’t love that!). For a little added power play wrap your hand around the back of their neck as though holding them down and allow your free hand to continue massaging them, perhaps upping the ante (with their consent).
3. Thumb play
Working out muscle tension is the ultimate point of a massage but it matters too in an erotic massage. You want the person to feel loosened and relieved of any heaviness, but also (and more importantly for you!) you want them to feel disinhibited and present in their own
4. Oils
A way to truly enchance a massage by making your partner feel every touch is through the use of massaging oils. Coming in a wide range (some that heat up, some that have a slightly tingly quality) they in any case smooth the person’s skin, avoiding any rubbing and making it smooth sailing for you and your magic hands.
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5. Foot massage
A whole new level of eroticism comes into play with foot massages on which we could write a whole article alone. The soles of the feet are filled with nerve endings and incredibly sensitive to the touch. Not only that, but according to reflexology, parts of the feet are connected to emotions as well as other parts of the body. Run your thumb vertically up and down the arch of your partner’s feet slowly to start things off, pulling gently on the toes one at a time and spreading them.
