What is a cervical orgasm and how to have one

We spend a lot of time talking about how the clitoris should be the focal point of all play and attention no matter whether it’s foreplay or penetrative sex. However, there is another area of the vagina and aspect to penetrative sex that should not go ignored – the cervix.

Whilst cervical orgasms are harder and less usual a form of orgasm, they do yield what many describe as a full-body orgasm experience that is pretty unbeatable.

What is a cervical orgasm?

A cervical orgasm comes about with stimulation of the cervix, the area that is deep within the vagina and the opening of the uterus. It can be stimulated through very deep penetration (which does not however entail penetration of the cervix) and is said to give extremely powerful orgasms that last longer.

Unlike clitoral orgasm where there is a clear endpoint or sense of release and relief at the end of it, a cervical orgasm takes longer, is less straightforward, and even your orgasm may feel less like a sudden release and rush of pleasure but more like an incremental growth of pleasure.

How to have one?

Whilst a lot of female orgasms focus on the clitoris and often don’t even require penetration, the cervical orgasm definitely requires penetration, and deep one at that! The main ways in which cervical orgasm is possible is through penetration or via the use of a ‘girthy’ dildo or vibrator.

This is something that happens through two ways – openness and stimulation of the cervical opening.

How to ensure it happens?

A lot of people claim that the key to achieving a cervical orgasm is through having a stronger vagina. Practice Kegels or simply tightening and releasing ‘down there’ 10 times every day for a stronger vagina. Being stronger will mean you can control as well as feel more of what’s going on.

What toys to use?

Since a cervical orgasm comes from deep penetration of the vagina but also stimulation and stroking of the cervix, it’s best left to a dildo or vibrator that is deep enough to get to the cervix but wide enough to offer stimulation. Of course all vaginas being different this will mean you need to know your own vagina in order to purchase wisely. Enjoy!