Why is oral sex so good and what toys replicate it
Let’s be fair. Sex is great and all, but have you tried oral sex? What’s probably true is that you have had experiences where the oral sex has been so good it’s eclipsed everything else that was going on and made your experience memorable.
With oral sex it’s not just the actual physical and visceral aspects of licking, sucking, swallowing that make it viseral and arousing, but, according to studies, we actually find the act of oral sex to be more intimate and bond forming.
In fact in studies carried out on daters (men in particular) said that they would be less inclined to perform oral sex on someone the first time they slept with them, although they would have penetrative sex with them.
What does that tell you? It tells you that oral sex is sometimes held as the holy grail of sex, the thing you do to finish each other or the thing you do to light things up, and that a large part of that is psychological as well as physcial.
So if we love oral sex so much and it’s rare in hookup culture as we saw, then how does one replicate this on solo routines? We’ve found a few sex toys that do a good job of just that.
The Tenga Deep Throat Vacuum Cup
This is a masturbator with a difference, one that guarantees to give you the sensation of one of the best blowjobs in your life. With a structure that creates a vacuum that gives an amazing sucking sensation, this toy also imitates a slurping sensation that’ll make you feel like you’re getting a very real bj!
Easy Rider Mouth Masturbator
If you want something skin-like and with the added bonus of being anatomically real-seeming with silicone lips, the Easy Rider is a guaranteed incredible oral sex simulator that will push you over the edge and give you an orgasm you’ll remember.
Infinitt Rechargeable Silicone Clitoral Stimulator with Suction Stimulation
We’re used to the idea of a vibrator having a good few speeds and functions, but this vibrators is a notch above. Aside from 12 speeds and functionalities on the dildo part of the vibrator that goes internally, it’s got an added suction nozzle that itself has 12 functionalities and serves to suck on the clitoris much as a mouth would do whilst everything else keeps going as it was. This is an instant orgasm deliverer!
Lelo Sona 2
When the Lelo Sona came out last year it felt like the next generation of sex toys had landed. A clitoral stimulator that imitated the sensation of intense cunnilingus via the power of sonic vibrations that functioned as both a suction as well as a teaser, seemed wildly futuristic. Cut to a year or so on and the Lelo Sona 2 Sonic Clitoral Massager is still wildly futuristic and most importantly, one of the most effective knee-knocking pleasure givers there are.
LELO SONA 2 Sonic Clitoral Massager – Purple
- Next generation sonic massager delivers powerful sonic waves without making direct contact
- Larger surface area to stimulate more of the clitoris than ever before
- 12 Vibration settings
- 100% waterproof
- USB rechargeable
- Made from body-safe silicone
- Charging time: 2 hours for up to 1 hour using time
